Imaginary Gardens with Real Toads: Metaphor, Poetry, and Families
Marlis Jansen Marlis Jansen

Imaginary Gardens with Real Toads: Metaphor, Poetry, and Families

At Graddha, we love metaphors and especially metaphors found in nature. Case in point, our name Graddha, which means “eagle” in Telegu, one of the many languages spoken in India. Eagles are a natural metaphor for wealth dynamics work because they soar above storms, care for their young sometimes after they have fledged the nest, have extremely acute vision, are a symbol on our money, and are considered sacred in many indigenous cultures.

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When the Goings Get Tough: Thoughts on Uncertainty
Marlis Jansen with Gabrielle Sills Marlis Jansen with Gabrielle Sills

When the Goings Get Tough: Thoughts on Uncertainty

Growing up, many of us are taught to avoid uncertainty. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, they say. From our earliest days, we’ve been hardwired to seek patterns and predict future events in order to help us survive. It’s human nature.

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The Shame Game: Humanity’s Most Powerful Social Tool
Marlis Jansen with Gabrielle Sills Marlis Jansen with Gabrielle Sills

The Shame Game: Humanity’s Most Powerful Social Tool

I am sometimes completely mortified when I think about some of the things I have said or done around my children. If you use an Apple computer, you too are probably often distracted by memories as random photos pop up on your screen. Staring at an old photo of my two girls when they were toddlers (they will be sophomores in college this fall), I recently remembered how difficult it was to get them dressed and ready for school in the mornings.

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Join the Club: How We Seek to Belong
Marlis Jansen with Gabrielle Sills Marlis Jansen with Gabrielle Sills

Join the Club: How We Seek to Belong

When we join a club, we commit time, money, or both to attain membership, and in so doing, receive nominal benefits like access to activities or a swimming pool or holiday festivities. But we also get something more.

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