
The Shame Game: Humanity’s Most Powerful Social Tool
I am sometimes completely mortified when I think about some of the things I have said or done around my children. If you use an Apple computer, you too are probably often distracted by memories as random photos pop up on your screen. Staring at an old photo of my two girls when they were toddlers (they will be sophomores in college this fall), I recently remembered how difficult it was to get them dressed and ready for school in the mornings.

Join the Club: How We Seek to Belong
When we join a club, we commit time, money, or both to attain membership, and in so doing, receive nominal benefits like access to activities or a swimming pool or holiday festivities. But we also get something more.

Rethinking the Golden Rule
As kids many of us were taught the Golden Rule: treat others the way you want to be treated. I can remember the first time, however, I realized that the Golden Rule might not be totally right.

Baby It’s Cold Inside: When A Big Personality Consumes The Family System
I recently had the pleasure of seeing Bradley Cooper play Leanord Bernstein (“Lenny”) in the film Maestro. As a former violinist, I was reminded of so many of my own musical experiences.