‪Let’s Not Tell Him That We Don’t Like The Pancakes
Marlis Jansen with Lily Boyar Marlis Jansen with Lily Boyar

‪Let’s Not Tell Him That We Don’t Like The Pancakes

I am blessed to have grown up with two parents who are amazing cooks. Family meals were not always appreciated at the time they were consumed, but now I remember them as one of the highlights of my childhood. We consistently gathered around a table while being nourished by food that was lovingly created and provided for the family almost every night. Now that I have two college-age daughters, I understand the enormity of this task. ‬

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After The Laundry, The Legacy
Marlis Jansen with Lily Boyar Marlis Jansen with Lily Boyar

After The Laundry, The Legacy

Meditation and mindfulness have been part of the zeitgeist for some time now. But it can feel like mindfulness is for people with a lot of time on their hands. However, this is a myth. You don’t have to be an enlightened yogi to participate in these practices on a regular basis.

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My Antifragile Family
Lily Boyar with Kjartan Jansen Lily Boyar with Kjartan Jansen

My Antifragile Family

My family has always been extremely close. The talk-every-day, text-when-your-flight lands, always-in each-other’s-business kind of close. We are by no means perfect — we are messy, loud and chaotic, with plenty of arguments and over-processing (¾’s of us are therapists), but we love each other deeply, laugh a lot, and have always felt connected. I remember, growing up, people would always tell me how lucky I was to have a family like mine. They could detect this special something — it was palpable.

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What is Love?
Marlis Jansen with Lily Boyar Marlis Jansen with Lily Boyar

What is Love?

At Graddha, we work with individuals, couples and families to develop the fundamental building blocks for successful, thriving multi-generational relationships. We sit down with our clients, and find out what they desire most in their lives. They almost always mention love as being most important. But what does this mean? What exactly is love?

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